subject: If You Need Relationship Help - Don't Be Pushy [print this page] One way to get them to make this choice on their own is to change their opinion of you. Take a look at the person you were when the two of you first started dating and look at what you were like when you broke up. Your goal would be to let them see the person they fell for when they first met you. When they become attracted and interested in you again there will be a chance of wanting you back.
