subject: Finding A Seniors Dating Service [print this page] When you have been out of the dating and romance scene for some time, it takes a bit of time to familiarise yourself with dating, especially when you are more mature
I am a gentleman who is over 50. I am interested in a seniors dating service that offers me a great and new channel to meet and date female friends over fifty. I had no idea how to go about meeting new lady friends at first, it all seemed a bit daunting and scary.
After 30 years of marriage, two children and a divorce, a seniors dating service was just what I needed to get back into the romantic swing of things. Firstly I joined a local dating agency that coupled me with a string of unsuitable women over 60. Many of those dates were a disaster and I was a slightly put off by it. So I started to look on the internet, and I found out that there are many online dating websites out there, however most of them catered for the younger crowd, from early twenties to mid-thirties. A lot of the dating site members used pseudonym names and not their real names, and many of them looked way too outgoing for me. I just needed something a bit more gentile and someone who is seriously interested in developing a relationship.
I was extremely sceptical about these dating sites, and after a while I realised that these younger, more mainstream dating sites were not for me. And because they charged a lot of money per month, I was wasting my time and money, as I wasn't meeting anyone that appealed to me, nor whom I considered wanted a more serious relationship.
I then started to look at a more specialised seniors dating service. Pensioners dating may seem entertaining to some, but I discovered that there are a multitude of daters over 50 years old who are looking for the same thing as me and are in a similar position. I started to use a couple of mature dating websites, where I could comfortably meet new over fifty lady friends, and take part in some enjoyable dating.
The mature dating websites were certainly a much better experience, in that I was engaging with like-minded people of my generation and older, who were interested in the things I was interested in and understood my circumstances. I met a lot of over fifty female friends who had been through the same thing as me, who had been married with a family and then suddenly back on the dating market.
I have been dating now for at least 6 months and during that time I have met some decent acquaintances. I have met some nice friends over fifty, who I go out with now and then, although I haven't met the woman of my dreams yet. Companionship is extremely important and finding more mature dating websites has helped me to start to live again.
