subject: How Do I Stop My Wife From Cheating? [print this page] A cheating wife can cause husbands much pain and stress. And not only that, resentment, anger and anxiety are the extra dressing. Most men, just like women overdo the cheating issue and inflict the pain on themselves rather than the aggressor. But if they still love their wives, they would spend a lot of time worrying about how to stop a cheating wife from cheating.
You see, we tend to get hurt by the act but we can't let go of the doer. We can forgive but that would be later. We need sometime to think and some time to breathe but we don't want to say goodbye, instead we just say goodnight.
As many as a thousand questions might have crossed your disheveled mind. You might have blamed yourself or blamed her for the cheating. And you might have mapped out a plan to bring her cheating to an end. Impulsively you roll up your sleeves and meet her head-on. Hey, man! You got it all wrong this time. What you think is not what you get.
Dig deep in to Her Core
You will never ever solve the problem unless you know the starting point of it all. Denial of the cheating situation will just put off healing process. The first thing is to accept that the issue is happening and that you should take things seriously especially in deciding what would be the best solution to stop it from eating the foundations of your marriage away.
Everyday relationship setbacks that she might have experienced:
Less time spent together
Lack of positive reception
Feeling of loneliness
She's lonely.
She was hurt and you never apologized.
She sensed that you're slipping away.
You're turning cold - Not anymore intimate; no touch.
The two of you never spend any quality time together.
You might use this as a checklist in examining your current relationship status with your wife. A check on even one or two among these items indicates an underlying marital problem that could have led your wife to have gone astray.
Know what she really Needs
If she's turning to another man then there is something she needs that you're not giving her. Now, I'm not saying that you are the culprit here. She may have never told you she needed whatever it is he's giving her. She may not have even known what it was until it was offered and she realized just how important to her soul it is.
It's not easy to end a relationship and it's not the best option now. Sit down with it and talk about it. Accept the pain that goes with it. But when you're through, roll up your sleeves and break up the earth; then by that time you will know that the root of the problem are emotional needs not met.
