subject: All Of A Sudden, He Filed For Divorce. What Now? [print this page] I had grave doubts about going forward with the divorce, but I didn't speak up in the right way. I used negative tactics rather than positive ones. This did a lot of damage and I had a lot of catching up to do, but luckily, over time (and by taking calculated baby steps), I was able to reestablish intimacy and bring back his love so that we were BOTH happy. You can read a very personal story on my blog at http://isavedmymarriage.com.