subject: 4 Ways To Get Shy Women To Open Up On A Date [print this page] All 4 of these tips will help you to open up a shy woman and will allow you to know more about her. Shy women aren't shy when they're by themselves, so you should do whatever it takes to emulate a similar environment that will allow her to start talking in front of you. Be sure to start using these tips to have more success with dating in general. Good luck!