subject: What Will I Do To Apprehend My Cheating Wife? [print this page] Do you have a feeling that your wife is doing something behind your back? If the thought is so strong, then you're probably thinking how to capture your cheating wife. You don't want to threaten her with divorce without any proof. There is a part of you, the part that still loves her, that is definitely hoping that your doubts are wrong. But for the sake of your sanity, not to mention your ego, you are itching to find out if she is cheating on you or you just got carried away by your imagination.
So, what will you do to apprehend your cheating wife in the act?
Do a Little Sleuthing
Grab the opportunity of checking her stuff the next time she goes out. Go over her calendar, scan her email, and search her pockets for any suspicious receipts. Look out for odd or suspicious charges on your credit card statements.
Call your cell phone company and request a copy of her call activities. If she calls to say that she will be working late for the day, pretend to surprise her by bringing take-out food from her favorite restaurant just to check if she is telling the truth.
Watch out for Suspicious Behavior
Any major change in behavior can be suspicious but there are a few changes that are commonly associated with infidelity. If your wife didn't know a puck from a stick before and suddenly is an avid hockey fan; that would be suspicious. If she suddenly begins paying attention to her appearance in a way she hasn't before, it could be suspicious.
When she suddenly breaks her old routine, then you've got to listen to that little voice in your head and start investigating. Look deeper to discover what your wife is really up to.
Investigate and Ask for a Straight Answer
Seek for the truth for the sake of your marriage, not to mention your sanity and ego. Even if it feels like being kicked in the balls when she confirms that she is having an affair with someone else, you've got to know and face it like a real man.
If she's going out to eat, find out where and ask what she ate when she gets home. If she's going to a movie ask about the movie when she gets back. Pay attention to the questions and the answers.
Don't do the Dirty Work
If you want the truth, ask someone else to do the investigation. This may be costly but it is the fastest and surest way to find out if your wife is cheating on you. This could prove her innocence or her guilt.
Until you get the answers you're looking for your relationship is in limbo. Sometimes it's better to pay to get the real answer than go on wondering indefinitely.
