subject: Why Can't I Get My Cheating Wife To Stop? [print this page] This question has been plaguing marriages since then. They wanted to stop their partners from cheating but wondered why they couldn't. More than half of the people confirmed they cheated on their partners. But it's not surprising that nearly half of those who committed cheating were women. It's a sad truth but we really have to accept this.
Unfortunately, you didn't just stop loving her the minute you found out she was cheating on you. It would be so much easier if you could have, but love just doesn't work that way. The good news, if you're the silver lining sort, is that her cheating doesn't necessarily mean that she's stopped loving you either.
Turning the tables around with her cheating can be done by making her realize how much she actually loves you by using her mistake. Being with another man seems to be her immediate option but when reality sets in, it is you who she really needs to be with.
Of course, the problem is that she cheated in the first place. You can't seem to make her stop and that question revolves in your mind over and over again.
You are now in this critical stage when you have to make hard decisions whether you are dedicated in saving your marriage or not. At a time like this, you have three outcomes.
1)Walk away from the marriage.
2)Learn to live with your wife's cheating.
3)Find a way to make your wife stop cheating.
Those three are absolutely hard as a choice but the thing you wanted is to make her stop cheating. These are the ways how:
1)Sit down and talk to her. Find out what it is that attracts her to the men she's cheating with. Not physical features but character traits, qualities, and even how he treats her. Find out how he turns her head.
2)Mimic how the other man treats your wife or what she really wanted from you. Be the real other man. No other man must distract her from you and no need to look elsewhere.
3)Lay down the law. If she really wants to work things out and save your marriage too then she might respond. While it's usually not good to issue ultimatums, if the relationship is failing the way things are going then there is little to be lost by telling her that continued cheating will not be tolerated.
