subject: Advice For Relationships With Breakup Problems - Hard Hitting and Effective! [print this page] Author: Jeff Gadley Author: Jeff Gadley
When seeking advice for relationships with breakup problems, it is imperative that you be open to the suggestions being offered. Now I am not saying that you have to do every thing offered to you, but simply that you keep your mind open to the possibility of attempting new things. Breakup repair can be quite exasperating at times. In fact, it has been known to cause many people to just completely lose it, due to the delicate nature of it. This happens because many times hidden truths come out; whether they are yours or the other person's and some of this stuff can be a real shock to the system. So when undertaking the advice for relationships with breakup problems, it is important to keep that in mind. Truth be told, it is really us humans that make it so difficult. This occurs because for the most part we do not feel there is anything about ourselves that is necessary to change. We mistakenly believe that we are damn near perfect! Lol Just kidding, but know what I am saying. Here are some hard questions to ask yourself for determining if you are ready to accept advice for a relationship with breakup problems in it. *Am I ready to commit to the task of relationship repair? *Do I understand that it will take work and consistent effort? * Am I willing to admit that I have shortcomings that I must change? * Can you both look at each other dead square in the eyeballs and say the words that you are willing to commit to the task of improving the quality of the relationship. * I am ready to instantly and lovingly say, "I am so sorry", when you make a mistake. BTW, it is not proper to say "sorry", it is far more personal and much more difficult to say "I AM SORRY". Don't believe me? Yeah, give it a whirl and you will find quickly. Advice for a relationship with breakup problems will not do you any good if you hide from the truth of who you are and what you want. So take some time to figure this out. You must be convinced beyond a shadow of a doubt that your relationship is worth fighting for. For the problems at hand right now, we must be willing and able to wipe the slate clean with a new, fresh start, if you truly want the relationship breakup advice to be a tool that works for you. If you can say to yourself and to you lover that you want the relationship to work and you are willing to educate yourself to that plan, then I am excited about your future together. In the meanwhile, know that I am right here rooting for you!About the Author:
Jeff Gadley has years of accumulated experience working with people as a former RN and coach in the areas of health and fitness. Currently he writes crisis intervention articles for relationships in trouble; providing fast, effective, high-powered solutions for helping individuals repair themselves and their broken relationships. Get Free Monthly Tips and Advice! FREE Love & Relationships Newsletter. Go here - http://911BreakUpRepair.com/Newsletter.htm
