subject: Getting Over A Cheating Wife - How To Move On After Your Wife Cheats [print this page] When a husband discovers his wife's infidelity, it hurts him in places one would never expect. More than a pride issue itself, cheating hits the hardest where it really hurts - the heart.
The love you have for your wife is still there, but somehow it is overshadowed by her cheating. And this somehow makes you uncertain on the future of your marriage.
You're not alone. The problem of infidelity is more widespread than people realize. While it is often assumed that the men are the primary cheaters, the numbers aren't bearing that out.
In fact, recent numbers show that women and men are almost evenly split when it comes to cheating. Not that this information is going to help you feel any better.
But what's the secret on moving on, after you discover your wife's infidelity?
Like most people who go through the discovery of a partner's infidelity, you may feel confused. At some point, you may not know where to go, who to ask for help, or even if you should save your marriage or not.
This is an uncomfortable place to be for a man like you. You are normally a man who is ready to make a decision or choose a path and go with that choice whether it's right or wrong.
This choice however, is bigger than all those others. This is the choice of your lifetime and shouldn't be made on a whim or without a lot of thought. Don't allow yourself to be pushed into a decision you aren't ready to make or you risk making a decision that no one, especially you, is happy with.
What to Do in Order to Move on After your Wife Cheats
Choose a course to take. You can't feel like you're stuck forever. You must eventually take the first step and start moving on. It doesn't matter if you commit a mistake now, you can face and deal with it after.
I suggest you try at failing first. If you are too scared to do that right now, give yourself time to decide or deal with the consequences and try to move one without your wife.
How to Start a Life Without Her?
Live one day at a time. Although this may seem like a clich, it's the best possible advice you may put into heart. Time will somehow make things a little better slowly. Soon you'll see, you'll have to do without those training wheels.
