subject: Is It Too Late? Working To Know If You Really Want Your Ex Back [print this page] If youre wondering if its too late you want your ex back after youve had a hard breakup, youve come to the right place. Here is the answer: Most relationships can withstand at least one breakup.
There are, of course, certain circumstances that would prevent a breakup from being fixable but at least 90 percent of couples that separate could be reunited if both parties were willing to work to make necessary changes.
Reflecting upon your own wants and needs, its important for you to determine if you really do want your ex back or if youre just missing his companionship. People do grow apart even if theyve been together for some time but they arent willing to actually separate. Its due to their being accustomed to having someone. What is the real reason you want your ex back?
If you still love your ex then there is no reason to stop you from making a plan and pursuing it until you get your ex back. However, pursuing a relationship just for the sake of having a companion could be disastrous. It could also hurt both you and your companion in the long run.
If the problems that occurred within your relationship are things that can be changed, then its perfectly fine to work towards patching things up.
However, if you just want companionship, it would be better for you to find someone that would better suit you. There are plenty of people out there that can provide you the necessary attention, caring and dedication that you need to be happy in a relationship.
Once you determine what it really is that you want there is nothing to stop you from getting it. Take the time after a breakup to make the right decision so no one else has to hurt.
