subject: Why He Left You And How You Can Work To Get Him Back [print this page] Youve probably racked your brain for what could have caused your boyfriend to leave you. Youve probably determined to change everything about yourself so he will take you back and you can both be happy like you were before. You want to be happy with your ex and you miss that happiness that he brought into your life before he left.
Actually, there is a very common reason why many guys leave a relationship and it is a reason that will flabbergast you. When a therapist asks why their patient left the relationship, the most common answer is:
She wasnt happy with me anymore. I could no longer make her happy.
Guys are intriguing beings when it comes to relationships because they can withstand a lot of pressure emotionally. However, what runs a guy down is when he feels like a failure. You may have been happy with your ex but if he didnt feel it, its likely thats the reason why he left. No matter how harsh the world around you gets; so long as he could see you smile, he was willing to go through hell and back with you. The moment you stopped showing your happiness with him was the moment he started doubting himself.
In order to win your ex back, you need to let him know how happy he really makes you. You cant just say it you have to show it, too. So long as you can overcome this obstacle, its likely youll be able to overcome many more obstacles in life that wont seem nearly as hard to get over with your loved one by your side.
