subject: How To Approach A Girl Successfully [print this page] Author: Jay Sullivan Author: Jay Sullivan
When it comes to approaching a girl, most men find it very hard to do. Below we cover some simple techniques you can master so you know how to approach a girl the next time around.
Always Make Eye Contact. Most guys get rejected when they approach a girl because they don't make perfect eye contact. Women look for confidence when a man approaches them. If you don't have confidence when approaching a girl, most of the time you will get rejected straight away.
Try To Smile More! The best way to see if a girl is interested in you or not, and if she would be approachable is to smile at her and see if she smiles back. If she has a blank look on her face, and doesn't smile back, or looks away as if she is trying to ignore you, then of course she isn't willing to be approached. Personally i would then move on to someone else if this happens.
Be Smart In Your Appearance. Before I started to learn on how to approach a girl I made sure I looked decent. Getting the latest hairstyle, buying some new clothes and wearing some aftershave works wonders. You'll be surprised how many women actually check out what sort of footwear you have on when you are out!
Give Out A Positive Body Language. This is very important when approaching a girl aswell for the first time. Don't go walking over with dropped shoulders and have your head down. this gives out all the wrong signals and will only show a girl that you lack confidence! Shoulders back, head up and chest out will give out signals that you are a confident person, and will give a much better signal to a woman.
The thought of approaching a girl in public brings all sorts of questions to mind. Fear of rejection, fear of the girls response and of course fear of failure. But, if you know how to approach a girl in the right frame of mind, and by having the right attitude, you really will have nothing to worry about.About the Author: