subject: How To Get Over A Break Up - 5 Steps You Need To Know To Beat The Break Up Blues Fast [print this page] Author: JD Dean Author: JD Dean
Knowing how to get over a breakup starts with making the decision to actually want the relationship to be over. Things are tough emotionally right now and it's no fun thinking about your ex and wanting to be with them day in and day out.
But moving forward and putting the pain your going through starts with you deciding that's what you want and we will give you some tip top suggestions to help you do this and do it quickly. Wanting to get back with your ex is natural especially when you were the one who was asked to leave the relationship. For you it was premature or took you completely by surprise and your feelings are still as strong as ever for your former partner. Will they ever stop? Yes but continuing down the road you are now will take forever and also leave you somewhat resentful which you don't want to be.
Here are 5 steps on how to get over a break up and moving forward and enjoying your life.
Step #1... Avoid the scenario where you consider yourself to still be friends. This cannot happen without someone feeling hurt until each person is completely over the other. Also let your family such as parents know to take down photos of the two of you together. It's tough but it's something that needs to be done. In situations where there are children involved then some diplomacy needs to be followed but the bottom line is, avoid contact with your ex until you are completely over them.
Step # 2... Put away photos of the two of you. Take any photos of you as a couple and individually around your home. This is just commonsense because if you are looking for a clean break then seeing your ex everyday even if it's a photograph is not going to help.
Step # 3... Get rid of any jewelry you have given to you by your ex. It's up to you how you do it; you can sell it or give it away but you need to do this because it's another memory source.
Step # 4... The same applies to any clothing in your closet or wardrobe bought by or given to you by your ex. People may make excuses that they keep something because they like it but the truth is, memories will flood back to you every time you put it on or notice it.
Step # 5... Maintain a positive outlook on life. Negative behavior has a way of projecting itself in your outward behavior so if you need to be emotional, then do it with your closest and most trusted friend or parents or simply let your emotions out in private. Some people find watching a tear-jerker is a good way of letting out emotions and a big help in getting them to get over a break up quickly.About the Author:
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