subject: What Fathers Groups Must Do And Not Do For Real Progress For Fathers Rights [print this page] 'Fathers Rights' asserts constitutional and equal rights for both fit parents under divorce and paternity suits. But fathers continue to face unconstitutional deprivations with their children suffering. This article addresses what fathers groups must do.
Fathers must first realize that the Divorce and Domestic Violence Industry (DDVI) is an enormous industry encompassing tens of billions of dollars in the U.S. annually. The elements of this state and court-affiliated industry permeate from the federal level (ex. federal child support enforcement industry), to the state level (Departments of State Revenue, family court judges, lawyers, GALS, parenting classes, domestic violence ,etc) right down to the town level (police domestic violence units and mothers themselves).
The key thread throughout is the child support enforcement agencies who feed off of child extortion payments from noncustodial father-slaves who have been illegally deprived of their parental rights to the benefit of mothers who refuse to share custody with fit fathers for money and revenge. It creates enormous wealth transfer and destruction of families.
Phony domestic violence accusations stemming from and supported by VAWA (the Violence Against Women Act - a billion dollar-a-year boondoggle for women) funnel money down to local police and shelters that feed off the unjust laws of entrapment of father with no due process for their protection. The DDVI constitutes a growing unconstitutional cancer integrated into (and lobbying) the legal and political structures that now engineer a fatherless society. As a whole it feeds off the destruction and deprivation of fathers and damage to their children.
It has created an Orwellian 'newspeak' of terms such as 'best interest of children', 'child support', and 'safety of women' - which misrepresent and hide their true deleterious and unconstitutional meanings imposed on fathers and men. These terms are designed to be seen as a greater good - superior to the fundamental (i.e. inalienable) rights of each of us. These terms are used to subdue opposition from men and fathers as their children and their rights are both unjustly and unconstitutionally ripped from them. They represent the vague and meaningless terms tyrannies use.
*What Fathers Groups Must NOT Do:
Fathers groups must not kowtow to these terms. Many fathers are afraid to be labelled 'deadbeat dads'. Yet the system extorts them with jail to pay and support the system that suppresses their rights, robs their children from their care and often perverts their children with malicious father-alienation assistance of so many of the 'single' mother class heralded by the Politically Correct (PC) media and pandering politicians.
Fathers must make it known to the general public who is completely unaware of the tyranny against fathers taking place. This tyranny is hidden under the barrage of 'deadbeat dads, abusers' and suppression of truth by the PC media. Those fathers of the unknowing public find it out when they wind up in family (divorce) court themselves.
Fathers Rights groups go wrong by trying to use vague neutral terms such as parents rights and custody improvement, which is meaningless to an unknowing public - including those men and fathers who need and deserve to know what is in store for them - so they can stand up and fight for their rights too, before they are unknowingly thrust into slave status. It is the duty of fathers rights groups to tell the naked truth to the public.
Fathers rights groups who work slowly to try to alter this tyranny by reducing child support by 10% or hope to eventually get shared physical custody through the legislative initiatives will not get what they want. They are wasting time. And worse, they are enabling the system to continue to become more entrenched and institutionalized into the current social psyche. Though often intelligent, these men are nave at best and cowards at worse when they realize what really must be done.
*What Fathers Rights Groups Must Do:
Fathers Rights groups must tell the public that men and fathers are targeted for destruction and financial rape under the present unconstitutional system for the benefit of the DDVI - which includes the new heralded 'single mother' class. They must bypass the PC/Anti-fathers rights media who cover-up the reality of this tyranny. They need to go straight to the unknowing men and fathers in the public realm.
Fathers Rights signs put out on the highways are an excellent first step. We need 10,000 signs per state displayed on all major highways establishing the message that the family court and the rest of the DDVI deny fathers rights and make them slaves of the state for profit, power and agenda.
With the signs alerting the unknowing public, it's time for nonviolent civil disobedience to show the seriousness of the present deprivations that fathers and their children face.