subject: Win Your Ex Back By Letting Her Do The Work [print this page] In addition to missing you she will be wondering what you are doing because you have not tried to contact her. Her curiosity will be getting the best of her and hopefully she will call you to see how you are doing. If she calls, this is good for you, but you must play a little hard to get. Let her think you have been doing great without her and keep the conversation short. Before hanging up make sure you ask about calling her back another time when you have more time to talk.