subject: Dating Tips For Men - Getting The Girl [print this page] The whole world of dating and relationships might easily set your head into a twisted spiral of confusion. First, when you are young, there are SO many things that you are taught to believe about how to create attraction and romance with a woman. Things that you pick up on from your family, friends, and even other influences. And as you get older, you might assume that you know exactly what to do to get the girl that you want.
Only thing is, when faced with the reality of it, most guys find that what they were taught to do, just does not cut it.
And so, they face the rejection from a woman, from the girl that they want to be able to attract.
The good news is that, when you really look at it, at least you know what does NOT work to hook a woman. But, then you are left with the question of what ARE the right things that you should be doing?
Here are a couple tips to get the girl that should help you out:
1. Don't weigh so much on just one woman. While this is what you are probably naturally inclined to do, when you focus all of your attention to one particular girl, then you are really just setting yourself up for heartbreak. You have to be able to not just gain experience with other women, you also have to be able to make the one that you really want realize not to take YOU for granted.
2. Flirtatious innuendos with a woman create intense attraction. Being ale to use flirtations with a woman will allow you to build some chemistry and attraction with her. If you are not used to using sexual innuendos, then you will want to start. Just make sure that hey are not TOO blunt. You want to have a little subtlety to your flirtations with a woman.
3. Drive her wild with curiosity and intrigue by being selectively unavailable. There are times when a woman NEEDS to know that you do have your own life. When you spend ALL of your time with her, it's too easy for her to take you for granted. Of course, this is NOT exclusive to just women. This is just normal, natural human behavior. When you are too available for anyone, they tend to take your presence for granted. Select your moments and have your OWN life.
