subject: It Is Tough Out There In A Woman's World [print this page] Do you ever wish there was a handy dandy manual to deal with all of life's situations? Or maybe even the remote control of life where you can press pause, rewind, and play again either the same way to relive or a different way. You're not the only one.
Despite what females say, males have it tough. It is not manly to cry or to express your emotions and we are supposed to be the more courageous and tough guys in order to be 'one of the boys' or the heroes to the ladies. It is kind of caveman-like, actually. And when it comes to love? Well... most males like myself have to get the courage and the guts to actually charm the one we're interested in while the females can just wait around to be asked whether they want to date us. No one gives us a guidebook on how to win the heart of a beautiful lady or gives us the remote control of life so we can re-ask a girl out more confidently and without sounding like a total idiot. Not only that, it certainly is unmanly to want to read love stories!
So how can a man romance a lady without feeling silly? Well, I'm going to tell you my successful little secret of how I got my gorgeous girlfriend to fall in love with me. It was really tough because whenever I spoke to her I became very nervous and tongue tied. Come to think of it, she probably thought that I was a bit of an idiot.
Over many days and nights, I tried to figure out how to approach her for a date and then it dawned on me my little sister was really into reading love stories. Girls always dream of finding their knight in shining armour, so there must be a magic formula to it!, I thought. I knew what would happen to me if she or my buddies found out I was stealing her books to read, so whenever my sister went out I grabbed any women magazines or books that I could find just to find that one secret piece of information that would solve my crisis forever!
As I studied these books and magazines regularly, I realised that love stories do indeed have a consistent formula to them. From that day forth, I practiced in my mind what I would do and say to win my now girlfriend over. This visualisation technique assisted me in becoming very confident and eventually I asked her out.
In summary, the secret to all you men out there who are sitting on their butts wondering why you aren't currently dating a beautiful lady do something different!
