subject: Attracting Happiness - Here's How to Do it [print this page] Being happy in your love relationships Being happy in your love relationships
Love is an essential emotion for a life well lived. In Love we find happiness. In order to manifest good quality love relationships into your life, ones filled with love and respect, one needs to do some appropriate introspection and then take some definitive action.
The law of attraction works on the principles of like attracts like.
v So, you need to first remove any negative thought patterns that could be present in your mind. To attract love in your life, you must first love yourself!
Recently, I like so many in Britain have been gripped by the life and death of killer Raoul Moat. If you are not au fait with his story than I will enlighten you. He was the love obsessed former bouncer who killed his ex girlfriends' new boyfriend, shot and injured his ex and shot and blinded a policeman. When I read his 47 page confession where he writes in detail about the relationship he had with his ex girlfriend Sam Stobbart, he writes of it as the love relationship of his life, but ultimately they could not make the 6 year relationship work. What is really sad about the confession is that Moat fails to take responsibility for the demise of the love affair. Many lovers do this, they resort to a victim mentality, making someone outside of themselves responsible for their own lives, if Moat had been in love with himself first and foremost he would have been able to resolve this, his relationship issues may have been more harmonious if he had concentrated on living in a state of happiness. We all have a responsibility to ourselves to live in a state of happiness, by doing this, we create the vibrations of true love in our lives.
How do you love yourself
v Write down all your good traits. Look for any negative traits and begin replacing them with the good traits.
v Tell yourself and believe that you are a worthy person and are capable of attracting the right person into your life who will love and respect you.
As you become convinced by these powerful loving thoughts, your subconscious mind, which believes and acts upon what you believe, begins the process of changing yourself!
Be Beautiful Forever
One of the issues which tainted the Moat/Stobart relationship was the insecurity Moat felt about their 15 year age gap.
The conscious mind, can influence the subconscious mind to change situations! The subconscious mind can be programmed to improve your image. You can easily change yourself into becoming an attractive person and this can help you attract and hold love in your life. Like attracts like!
How it works
v Remind yourself that you are a good and attractive person.
v Do this by Looking into a mirror daily to find your loving and attractive image. If you can not do this at first then Convince yourself that you are becoming a more attractive and confident person.
This principle of the law of attraction works on the subconscious level. Properly programmed, this law can restructure your electromagnetic patterns and turn you into a irresistible person. Age is just a number after all.
Love conquers all
Another issue I learnt about in the confession was Moats' absolute hate of the police. This aspect of his personality caused a lot of tension in his life, but in life you must send love out.
Here is how
To do this you must Feel that you're constantly sending out good and positive vibrations in all directions. Feel that these vibrations are filled with love and compassion for all.
Visualise that these vibrations are engulfing every person that you meet. Faithfully believe that the positive force that surrounds you makes you irresistible to others.
The Love List
To attract the right love into your life
Write down the qualities that you are seeking.
Believe that this wonderful person already exists, and destiny will bring you both together.
Believe that you'll meet this lovely person very soon.
Your subconscious mind has the ability to attract the ideal person in your life if you let your subconscious mind know what you desire. Do not doubt the subconscious mind's ability to work wonders!
Reading about the tragic life of Raoul Moat made me realise how if he had incorporated these simple ideas into his relationship and into his life it would have been impossible for his destructive rampage to have been possible. Everyone deserves to be happy and fulfilled in their lives.
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