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If you still love your ex and you are hoping for some second time romance, you can actually work it out. It is not about chasing your ex to make him to have him back in your arms, but it is about attracting him back into your life. Indeed, there are things that you need to consider in learning how to make your ex want you back. To avoid these pitfalls is one of the important things you can do to succeed.

Breakups at times are not permanent. You and your partner may be carried away by your emotions during your fights and arguments and you end up breaking up, or you both might have made a wrong decision about breaking up, then your chances of getting back together may be high. If your partner dumped you because he wants space, then it is not the end of the world.

We all make bad decisions in life and for some, breaking up may even make the bond stronger. Of course, as the old saying goes, 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' thus there are always chances that you get back with your ex especially if you still love each other. If you are looking forward to getting back with your ex, here are some tips on how to make your ex want you back.

- Attract your ex with a new you. You don't have to transform to a point where your ex may not even recognize you anymore. Instead, enhance your outer and inner beauty by pampering yourself, making yourself look good and learning how to dress well. These little changes in the way you look may pique his curiosity about you and of course, may lead you to attract him back in your life.

- Make the breakup a challenge to improve your life. Be someone who achieved something after the breakup. Prove to your ex that you have become better after the breakup, and you were not just dwelling too long on the hurts and pain of the breakup. Work to succeed in your career or find new interests. The more you do good in other areas of your life, the more impressive you can become to your ex. Seize the opportunity that you are away with your ex to prove what you can do best in life.

- Do not chase him. If you want to learn how to make your ex want you back, then you must not chase him. Often, the common reaction we have is to chase something and someone we want, but in case of getting back with your ex, it is often counterproductive to chase your ex if you want to get him back. Aside from being annoying, this is also a turn off for most people to find their ex stalking and following them wherever they go. Instead of chasing him, attract him by being impressive to him. Highlight the traits and the things that attracted your ex to you the first time you met. Try to be someone who can manage your life well. The more you show him that you are capable of being independent and you are not needy, the more that he will be impressed with you.

These are just a few of the things to learn on how to make your ex want you back. Although these do not guarantee you a hundred percent that you can get back with your ex, these will however increase your chances of giving each other a second chance.

by: Carolyn Anderson




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