subject: End Premature Ejaculation Now - 3 Great Tips [print this page] Is it feasible for a man to be taught to end premature ejaculation now and provide unimaginable sexual joy to his female partner?
For many men, this may seem like an impossible undertaking. The most common problem affecting men in the bedroom is premature ejaculation, after all. It becomes twice as difficult to focus on giving her maximum pleasure, when you are concentrating on making intercourse last longer. Or is it? Well, lets find out!
Turning Her On First
Both men and women are naturally predisposed to reach a sexual climax at about the same time, according to most studies. But there is one central difference between the two. Women are more aware and insecure about their own bodies and this psychological distraction actually causes them to take longer to get sufficiently stimulated.
Ironically, this an an advantage for the men. You should start slow, paying attention to your lovers body and paying her lots of compliments. Give her sufficient stimulation on her non-sexual areas first before moving on to her erogenous zones. This will free her from her own insecurities and at the same time, buy you time so that you can last longer.
Priming Her For An Orgasm
Once women are aroused, they tend to stay that way longer than men before they start ascending towards orgasm. The stimulation that you provide her in this phase is the key. At this stage her clitoris is ready for the taking. Focus on stimulating her clitoris in steady, tender strokes using your fingers, while penetrating her.
You are likely to feel your breathing and heartbeat going up at this point. If you let your breathing get out of control at this point, you will likely speed away to your own orgasm. Instead, focus on taking deep breaths, inhaling and exhaling slowly. This will help to relax those diaphragm muscles and prevent them from becoming too tensed.
Race To Finish: Maintaining Your Own Awareness And Control
When she is nearing a climax and you attempt to change your position or even the rhythm, speed and intensity of penetration, she is likely to go back to square one! Try to draw your concentration away from the sensations in your penis and concentrate on your other body parts. For example, notice how your arms are supporting you during penetration and how your abdominal muscles are flexing. This gives you greater awareness and better control, buying you more time before you hit the point of no return.
