subject: What Causes My Wife To Cheat And How Can I Stop Her? [print this page] How can I stop my wife from cheating? Why is she cheating on me in the first place? Have I done something wrong? These are but common questions you might be asking yourself, somewhere after, who is that guy, he'll regret the day he stole my wife, after knowing that your wife has been cheating on you.
They are all perfectly valid questions that deserve answers. Unfortunately, the answers aren't all that easy to provide.
Why is my wife cheating?
The first question has many possible reasons. In fact there are too many reasons your wife may be cheating to list. Here are a few of the common reasons women cheat. Perhaps one or more of them is the culprit in your wife's cheating.
Boredom - some women are just bored with the same old marriage routine night after night. They miss the excitement of dating and trying new things.
Absence of Challenge - women also wants to be challenged. After marriage, they feel like the "conquest" is already over. They miss the feeling of "conquering" a man as they feel the sweet taste of victory when it's over. To experience new things, for them, is what creates challenge.
Respect - many women feel they aren't getting enough (if any) respect at home. Another man comes along and plays on the lack of appreciation and acknowledgment, offers these things, and enjoys the rewards of doing so.
Feeling of Security - women may sometimes find security in the arms of another man. This kind of comfort gives them the feeling of confidence which they tend to lose due to some deep down insecurities.
Revenge - women who feel they are being cheated on or that they have been wronged in some major way will often have affairs to "get even". It rarely works out for them though and they only end up in more pain from the guilt.
How can I stop her from cheating?
There are many ways to make her stop cheating but you'll have to find a method that works with her reason for cheating to be most effective.
If boredom struck her; make sure that she has things to keep her occupied - both her time and attention.
If she needs a challenge; give her some major challenges - consider role playing so she can enjoy the thrills of conquest and the hunt.
If she feels unvalued; show her that you care and that every little thing she did has been appreciated. That will be equal to respect.
If she needs comfort; give it to her.
If she's alone; be right there, and let her feel your presence.
