subject: Getting a Guy to Like You – Build on the Attraction [print this page] Women who tried to get the attention of a man she was interested in were labeled lustful and dissolute in the past. Luckily for women today their independence is appreciated and initiating contact with a man she is interested in is perfectly appropriate. Although, it is a little tricky balancing a ladylike behavior while asserting independence. Would you like to learn some techniques on how to attract a guy? When you've got him interested in you, do you need to know how to keep relationship issues from turning him off? Then you need to have a look at some of the techniques on getting a guy to like you, and ways that you can avoid running him off after you have his attention.
Seductive smiles
Some of the same measures that men try on women will also work on men. If you want to get his attention fast, try a wink and a nod when he looks your way. This technique is a safe way to show the guy that you are available at a minimal risk of rejection. This used to be considered an immoral act for a woman in the past, but it is more acceptable by today's standards. However you will not want to over do it, as staring will probably makes him uncomfortable, especially if he is shy. If the warm smile and flirty eyes doesn't have him walking your way then you will have to initiate a conversation with him.
Casual conversation
Initiating a conversation with the man that you are attracted to depends a lot on the setting. Places like caf's, shopping malls and supermarkets are a casual setting, and your conversation with him should be casual in nature. You my want to try and open up some conversation by asking questions about menu items or products that are on sale when in supermarkets or caf's. This will need to be accompanied by more eye contact and warm smiles to show that it's not just the food that you're interested in. It is okay to simply introduce yourself to a guy you're interested in when you are at social clubs or sport bars. If the guy still doesn't get the message try asking him for directions to the ladies room while giving him a sideways glance and a seductive smile.
Pay attention
The next task will focus on building the attraction when you do have his attention. A good way to accomplish this task is to find out what he is interested in. By gaining information on the sort of things he enjoys, you can capitalize in areas where your interests are shared. Try to relax and act naturally as most men are especially attracted to intelligent and independent women who do not have to put on an act to impress them. If you want to get the guy to like you then look him in the eyes when he's talking to you and pay close attention to what he's saying. Before you say your good- bys to the potential partner you will want to remind him that you are both available and interested in seeing him again.
The best advice that I can give to any woman on how to attract a guy is to try not to overdo it. Hopefully these tips on getting a guy to like you are going to work for you the next time you have an opportunity to meet a guy you find attractive. Please remember the lessons on how to keep relationship issues from spoiling the fun by letting him do most of the talking.
