subject: Indian Bride - Catch Me If You Can! [print this page] Sometimes I do find time for myself for thinking , today I was reading my own articles, most of the articles I am taking about everything else and almost nothing or very little about my business and services why? Why am I saying thing which are not related to business. Only because I want to provide my services to those who I can't reach - my experience of life - in my business services there are many competitors - in my life experience it all mine exclusively - sharing with you is with article directory is privilege and honour.
Fear is something you cannot see and there is no cure for it. Many times you keep it to yourself and that is more damaging then bullet. It kills you like a slow poison, you will lose your sleep, you will not be able to enjoy your day.
I had one fear twenty years ago, I was running for three years and I got caught one day end my fear ends, my agony ends it was the last day.
Back in 1990, when property market fall, bank base rate of interest was 23% I was stuck with three properties, I had 30% of my money in each property and a 70% bank loan. The market drops to 40% lower than the market value basically if I sold all three property I still had to pay back to bank which I did not have, I had no choice but to walk away from this, I rented a private home and return all three properties keys to the bank sealed in the envelope with letter without my forwarding address. I know they will lose money - "catch me if you can". I thought they won't look for me as I had lost everything, but everyone was a loser. I was not the only one.
My fear of getting caught gave me hard time for three years, one day I got visitor from the bank then summons from court. When they screen me & see that I have nothing for them they drop the idea for bankruptcy. Wise decision - they avoid further loses for them .
All I had to declare and submit that I have nothing, no assets, no income, three children, responsibility, rental home, second hand car, no designer underwear, unpaid bills, and eating nothing but chicken & pasta. This was good enough for them since then I did not see them, since then sun is shining, hours of happiness life was king-size.
Why did I run from my fear? Why did I not declare on the day I return the key ? Why? It was because I did not have the internet didn't have an article directory. I didn't have guidance from a caterer who was talking different from his product. I didn't have wedding planner disclosing his private and confidential life issues publicly.
