subject: Why You Can Get Your Ex Back Soon [print this page] Going through a breakup can be one of the hardest experiences of your life. You are likely to go through an emotional rollercoaster, feeling depression, sadness, anger, and even elation at times as well. When someone breaks up with you and you want to stay together, you are always going to want to get them back immediately. As such, here are 3 tips for getting your ex back.
The first tip is to ensure that you do not stay in contact with your ex. If you are always trying to call up and begged them to take you back this will push them further away. Avoid calling them, texting them, e-mailing them, and certainly never meet up with them in person.
By preventing yourself from contacting then you will also prove to them that you are able to move on from them more easily. You can prove that you are getting on with your life and that you have the confidence to continue without the need for them by your side. Not only will this help you to move on, but it will also make them think twice.
The second tip is to ensure that your confidence is being built during this period. It is absolutely fundamental that you regain your confidence as this is likely to be very low once you have been rejected. In your desperate and very emotional state you will never going to be able to rekindle your relationship.
It is, therefore, important that you continue to see friends, go on holiday, buy new clothes, get a haircut, and generally do what ever you can do in order to rebuild your confidence. You need to display the person that your ex fell for and this isn't a snivelling wreck.
Once your confidence has been suitably rebuilt you can then gradually get back in contact with your ex. Phone up casually and simply have a chat. See how they are doing and don't mention the breakup at all. Remain casual on the phone and do not continue to talk too long. Suggest meeting up for a casual chat in person.
At the meet you have to show them the person that you were when you are in a relationship together. If you display a confident happy person then this is going to make them think again about the breakup. If there is any chance of you getting back together with them, this will get the ball going.
