subject: Get Your Ex Back, If You Really Want To [print this page] There you sit, broken hearted, because you got booted from another relationship. You hurt so bad that it is hard to breathe, right? You have no tears left, and the radio keeps playing old love songs that you know are exactly what is true. You poor sorry sucker, you probably want to get your ex back, huh?
To begin, you must understand that this is easier if you are the dumper than the dumped, okay? If they are sitting home alone like you, and missing you back, then it will be a snap to make the parks fly right now. But if you got dumped? Then you have some work to do.
If you got kicked out of the relationship, believe it, it was you all the way. If they said otherwise it was only because they had a shred of pity left for you at the bitter end. It was you, and you are going to have to fact that fact. Why? So you can stop doing whatever you do that is so stupid, that is why. Stop and do not do it again.
Now that you figured out what you did that makes you a jerk, you have got to make up for it. You may have to beg, plead, whine and grovel, but you are going to have to apologize like you really mean it. This could get really ugly, but this is what you wanted to do, so get to it. Tears might help.
Now for the hardest part. You will have to change. You will have to stop doing whatever it is that you were doing wrong for the rest of your time together. You will have to suck it up and deny yourself big time for this to work. You cannot return to your old ways ever again, it simply will not work.
What you should really do is call up all of your old friends, the ones you have been ignoring for the one new friend, and get together for a great session of dirt digging and get the breakup out in the open so you can get over it. You should avoid the ex like the plague, forever, Still, if you really want to get your ex back, there will be no stopping you from trying, so good luck in the fight.
