subject: Should I Get Back Together With My Ex [print this page] If the two of you have broken up, look closely at what led to this, have you realized that this person is just not for you? If your ex is pressuring you to make that decision to get back with them and you are convinced it's just not meant to be then say no. As much as you may feel sorry for them, do not feel obligated to be nice and agree with them or give in. You have your life to live and you know what you are looking for. There are many more people you will meet and one of them is the match you have been looking for.