subject: To The Left, To The Left [print this page] Yes ladies, he must not know about you, he must not know about you Why? Well, because you can have another man very fast and as matter fact, he will be at your place in a few minutes.
This Beyonce's Irreplaceable song is one that women are singing loud and proud. On one hand you have men telling women that they will not find another man like them and this is crazy!! However, finding another good man will not be as easy as you think, ladies. Consider what type of man you really have before you think that the grass is greener on the other side.
Ladies, please, please understand that just because men on your job, at work, church and other places give you lots of attention or call you beautiful and fine, does not mean that in that crowd is a great man. He may not be one who would treat you better than your last man or according to your standards. Most of the time, those predators have a plan for you and it is usually something other than becoming your soul mate.
I have seen ladies on so many occasions leave their husband or man when problems occur based on the attention they are receiving from other men at work, gym or other social places. Guess what I discovered? It never measured up to anything but wishful thinking. Those guys were simply smooth talking predators who fooled you into thinking that they wanted you. You messed up a working relationship with fixable problems for that nonsense?
If you have a man that understands your crazy ways, puts up with you at your worst, is good to your kids and easy to live with, it is best to fix those issues with him rather than seeking a new love. "To the left, to the left," is a great saying but not applicable in most situations.
Do not allow your pride or sista-hood peer pressure forces you to leave a man just because of mistakes. Remember to look at the total relationship before you think about leaving.
Again ladies, if it is fixable now or with time, consider all of your options before you fold to Mr. Charming game and take actions that you will regret.
For the record, predators are extremely attentive and charming until they hit it!!! (You know what I mean) Once he conquers and releases, all of the charm, phone calls, texts and attention usually go away. You are left to feel cheap and cheated.
