10 Simple Ways to Get Over A Breakup
Have you ever wondered if there are any simple ways to get over a break up
? After you finish reading this article you will see that there are ten. I have taken mine and my friends' personal experiences and came up with the simplest ways to help you get through this very tough and emotional time. I have been there and know exactly what you are going through.I believe in my heart that there is a light at the end of the tunnel for everyone. They just need the correct guidance to see it. I will be that guide for you, so take my hand and lets begin. Here are my 10 simple ways to get over a breakup:
1. Pick Yourself Up And Be Strong
Do not sit and bang your head against the wall wondering what you did wrong or drown yourself in pity. Come to grips that it is over and you have a life to live no matter what.
2. Keep Yourself Busy
Try to do some things you have always wanted to do, or some things you have not been able to do, because you were in a relationship. Find some hobbies to help take your mind off your breakup.
3.Do Some House Cleaning
Get rid of any pictures of you and your ex together or any reminders that you may possibly have that will trigger any emotional feelings. If you do not do this, it will only make you feel sad and miserable.
4.Spend Time With Family And Friends
Try to spent a lot of time with your family and friends because they are really there for you and have your best interest at heart. When you talked to your family and friends, try not to reminisce about "all the good times" you've had with your ex (this is not the time).
5.Get Out With Your Single Friends
Make plans for a night on the town with your single friends. This will truly make you feel more comfortable about getting back to dating again.
6.Don't Go Out Too Much With Your Married Friends
This will just get you thinking, "what could have been" and all the happy times that you and your ex shared
going out together. This will definitely not help you to get over your ex.
7. Don't Call Your Ex
Eliminate phone calls from your ex, and don't initiate any contact yourself. If you do get a phone call or you see him/her somewhere in a public place, try to shorten and minimize your conversation, so you do not get into an uncomfortable situation.
8. No Propositions
Don't ever accept any propositions from your ex, offers to get together for a mutual physical satisfaction. It will only seem right at that moment, however in the morning or later that day you will feel emotionally burdened. Do not let them use you for convenience because they can't find anyone else.
9. Don't Make Empty Promises
It doesn't matter whose fault it was for the breakup, never promise that if you get back together that things will change because chances are that they won't. They may at first but before you know it, it will slide right back into the rut again.
10. Apply What You Have Learned
Take everything that you have read and apply it and I am sure you will be amazed at the results. Not only have you grown on the inside but you are now a much stronger person overall. By now you should have realized what you want out of a relationship so when you do find that someone, it is unlikely to have to travel down that road again.
10 Simple Ways to Get Over A Breakup
By: Tim B Taylor