16 Priceless Ways To Regain Your Bedroom Fun
Sex can be fun
Sex can be fun. It can be boring if we treat it as if we are drinking a glass of plain water. The good news is we can sustain the fun in our sex lives by continuously improving our lovemaking skills.
Here are the 16 ways to spice up your sex life:
(1) Connecting/talking to him/her often
Talk about the things that excite him/her. Knowing those things that arouse his/her mind will work magic for you when the time comes. In addition to talking about sex and sharing with him/her your sexual fantasies, you and your partner should talk more in general. Improving your communication and talking with him/her more often will boost your intimacy with him/her and help you to fell less inhibited when you have sex. You can also play romantic games with your partner that include questions of a private nature which can work wonders in opening up the lines of communications leading to greater sexual arousal later.
(2) Pay attention to your partner's signals in daily life
For example, she may give you the green light for sex by asking you to watch TV with her before going to bed. Knowing how to read your partner's signals is something you need to learn over time. This is an essential element of communication the two of you must have in order to enjoy sex with each other.
(3) Touch her regularly
Do not make the mistake of thinking that this is only for the bedroom. Physical closeness is a vital part of arousing her. Schnarch, a well-known sex coach, recommends hugging for about 5 minutes at least once a week. He says hugging will give you a more accurate picture of the state of your relationship. How does your partner react to your hug? Does she look distracted? The hug will give you the information you need to repair whatever is going wrong that can adversely affect your sex life.
(4) Be romantic
Great sex is not restricted to what you do in the bedroom. At all times you need to make her feel loved and appreciated. You have to show her there is something more to your relationship than sex. Make statements expressing your love to her in the proper manner. Saying "I like you" when you really mean it, is very important to women. They relish hearing it and feeling the love that you have got for them. Romantic gestures such as candle light dinners, unexpected red roses or even an inexpensive gift with some sort of customization and tailoring to her need will represent how much you appreciate her.
(5) Maintaining your sense of self worth
Be comfortable with yourself as a person, developing your own self-esteem will help you gain confidence in life and the bedroom. The more confidence you are, the better you will perform and the better you will feel about sex.
(6) Set aside time for each other
Schedule dates and continue to court each other, the way you do before marriage. A date night is an effective way to build up to great sex. By the time you reach home after a fun night, both of you will not be able to resist the urge to have sex.
(7) Exercises regularly
Sex is a labor intensive activity. Your heart rate and breathing increase rapidly and dramatically. Muscles clench and remain tense over a period of time. Your core body temperature rises significantly even if it is not a marathon session. Eating right and getting enough exercise will help you maintain your sexual performance. It also helps you to relieve stress and stimulate the production of endorphins the feel-good hormone in your brain which increases your sex drive and can potentially make your orgasms stronger. You don't have to be a super athlete by any means, but basic physical health will improve your sexual functioning. Running, walking, swimming or any activity that can strengthen your heart, for 3 to 4 days in each week can help to increase your sexual desire as well as burning calories. Studies have shown that regular exercisers report a higher sex drive. This may be related to surges of testosterone (an essential male sex hormone) that can occur immediately after resistance training like lifting weights, or right after endurance training like running.
(8) Eat testosterone-boosting foods
Yes, you read that right "a surge of testosterone". But exercising is not the only natural way to pump up your body's production of testosterone. There is another more pleasurable way to do it because there are certain foods that will naturally build up your testosterone level. The ordinary foods with aphrodisiac effects are oysters, lean beef, beans, poultry, eggs, cottage cheese, broccoli, cabbage, Brussels sprouts, garlic, banana, celery, dark chocolate, ginger, honey, pecans, pumpkin seeds, chicken peas, nuts, sunflower seeds, sesame seeds, wheat bran, wheat germ, cardamom, red wine, pomegranate, asparagus, sauerkraut, liquorice, oats, flaxseed, figs, fennel, avocado, almonds, basil. Proper dieting is important because low salt foods can help to increase sex drive and libido.
(9) Spend more time on foreplay
Most women need lots of foreplay to help them get lubricated. Spending more time on foreplay by means of kissing, oral sex, a back rub, massage or other relaxing act can help you to build up the sexual tension, which is a sure way to make sex better.
(10)Getting better at oral sex
When performing oral sex on her, men should refrain from making jabbing movements with their tongue. Slower and softer movements as though you are licking ice-cream are usually better. When performing oral sex on a man, women should keep their teeth away from his organ and use only their lips and tongue instead.
(11)Be creative
Explore your partner's body and find new and exciting ways as well as trying new sexual positions to arouse him/her. Watch facial expressions and listen for sounds of arousal. If you hit a spot that arouses him/her easily, concentrate your attention on that area will help to light up the flames of passion. You can also leave the bedroom and make love in a different room in the house. Your coach or the kitchen table may be better alternatives.
(12)Be spontaneous
While some people have to schedule time for sex, it can be equally exhilarating about having sex with your partner unexpectedly. If your husband is in the bathroom getting ready for work and you rub against him, push him against the wall and give him a kiss, this can lead right to sex. Both of you will start the day on a good mood.
(13)Dress for sex
Wearing sexy lingerie or silk boxers (or nothing at all) underneath your normal clothing will help you feel sexy and a little naughty. This will put you in the mood for sex and throughout the day you will be looking forward for the moment you finally get to have sex.
(14)Use sex aids
It is okay to bring a vibrator to bed or use KY Jelly to make sex less painful or simply more stimulating. L-arginine cream can instantly work to increase clitoral blood flow when apply right on the clitoris before sex. A wide range of sex aids can be found in sex shops these days and you can shop with your partner to choose the kind of items that appeal to both of you. However, at all times, neither of you should feel forced to participate if you are not comfortable.
(15)Occasionally, go for quickie sex
For working couples, engaging in grinding sex can be a luxury to some of them, though you should take time to enjoy this wonderful activity. A great quickie sex during rush lunch hour or just before you work can still leave you feeling refreshed, satisfied and fulfilling.
16 Priceless Ways To Regain Your Bedroom Fun
By: Ng Eng Hou
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