Mistakes often pop up during a separation that will disintegrate all chances of getting back with your ex
. There are two very common mistakes that will be mentioned here that, if avoided, will help you in your efforts to get your ex back. You just have to keep an eye open so you can avoid them.
Big Mistake (1) - Showing Desperation
Surprisingly enough, this happens in so many ways you might be afraid to do anything but sit in your room and pout. However, thats not going to help your chances of getting back with your ex either. The most common desperate act has been titled Text Message Terrorism because it really becomes a terror when your ex receives a constant inflow of messages and/or phone calls.
An overflow of messages becomes difficult to handle for your ex. And when you say, I really want you back in an attempt to tell your ex youre ready for him to be back in your life he takes it as you cant do anything without him and youre just desperate to have someone. This will just make your ex tired of hearing from you and ruin most of the chance you had before of getting back with your ex.
Big Mistake (2) - Looking For an Easy Way Out
This can be turning to alcohol, drugs, food or just giving up on life all together. Its understandable that youre going to feel lonely and hurt because you did love your ex. However, if you really care about him youre not going to throw your life away. If he really cared about you he wont want you to throw your life away either. Alcohol could only become an addictive source of numbing the pain that doesnt even help most of the time. It will only cause you to do even more things youll later wish you hadnt.