Have you been wondering about how to save your marriage, there are a couple secret tips that can help you out. What have you and your partner been doing now that is different from when you where dating or first married? Are you still doing these same things today or have your lives taken a different turn? There can be many reasons marriages have problems but here we will cover only a couple.
The things that factor into a marriage that can be why you are looking for help are boredom with the marriage, changes in attitudes or interests, an important job or moving locations. If one of you have been having an affair that would be a big one that would be difficult to overcome but it's doable. This may require counseling to fix and is not one of the secret tips.
The first tip, which is really not a secret but something we do not think of, is to leave your spouse alone for a few days. Give your spouse time to themselves to think over whatever it is that is bothering them. This is not a separation and your partner needs to understand this, they are just getting some breathing room. Couples can sometimes spend too much time together, this can lead to one of the couples feeling confined or restricted. A little time apart can be a good thing for your relationship.
At the other end is sometimes couples do not spend enough time together. Maybe work and other commitments keep you apart and the relationship is suffering because of this. You must plan on fixing this now by making time to spend together for anything from dinner together to going on a weekend get away. You can't let your relationship grow apart only because the two of you have busy lifestyles.