3 Keys To Saving Your Marriage-how Do I Save My Marriage?
Key no. 1- Don't sweat the small stuff
Key no. 1- Don't sweat the small stuff
The little things, the little issues, are only symptoms of a bigger problem. You must address the underlying cause of these symptoms and see the bigger picture.
Remember when you first met? The little things were not a problem then..and they should not be now either. If you address the fundamental thing that is gone wrong in your relationship.
Key no. 2- Understand your expectations in your marriage
You must have a good understanding of marriage as not being a fairytale as you are led to believe as a little boy or girl. You must recognise that we are all imperfect human beings and that it is fine to be imperfect..and it is also fine for your partner to be imperfect also.
Key no. 3- Recognise the difference between men and women
You know that book "Men are from Venus, women are from Mars"?
Men and women are intrinsically different and this difference leading to different outlooks and interests sometimes should not be castigated or criticized.
Rather the difference should be embraces and celebrated.
Remember that there are 3 sides to every story..yours, his/hers and the truth.
To make your marriage work, and you will have to work at it, you need to equip yourself with the knowledge and the tools to understand one another. You will need to embrace the differences between you and see the big picture, the reason why you came together in the first place. And the reason why you want to stay together into the future.