It's typical that a couple would search for relationship rescue tactics when their relationship starts to have problems
. From the start most relationships will thrive until at some point it levels out, then it starts to go down hill. The caring relationship starts to becomes a routine of daily routines, then one or both of the couple may cry save my relationship.
One of the first steps many couple try is to bring the romance back into the picture. This is good but it does not get to the root of the problem. Other steps must be made to remedy that.
1. A couple should try to live each day together as if it's their last. If you lost your partner today due to an accident what would you do? Did you leave something unsaid or could there have been something you will regret you did not do for them. You never know what may happen, so live your time together to its fullest.
2. Re-learn to communicate with each other. Communication starts to falter after a period of time goes by because you tend to become familiar with each other and talk less. What is bad about this is when a couple has a relationship issue many times they will not discuss it early on and fix it. They may wait until it's too late and the issue has grown bigger and harder to deal with.
3. Learn to appreciate your partner by doing lots of little nice things for them. These little things will add up to a big appreciation for you also. If you just do one big thing for your partner and that is it, it will have less meaning. Do not focus on the things that annoy you about your partner, you will just get negative and start to have arguments which will cause relations trouble.