Are you ConFuSed with YoU?
It seems as though some of us are at a stand still
. We're either at a place where we don't know what to do or clueless of which direction to go. Various decisions have clouded your mind as well as your focus. For some of us we can't discern from what is real, who is real, or if life itself is real!Crazy, but this is the reality that most of us face. For some of us we turn to relationships for a way out. We feel as though this is the way to get away, escape, be free of that which we can't figure out on our own and in return turn to someone else for completion, when we are not complete ourselves. Be careful of who you turn to, for the need to identify and unify has come into play, but wrong intentions is written all over this. What we fail to realize is that in order to unify with anyone, we must first unify with self, complete a mandatory task that is a MusT!as well as imperative...... in order to move forward as well as mature. If this isn't done we form a destructive pattern, and before we know it this pattern allows us to think and behave in a self destructive way. If certain steps aren't taken how do you think, or will make yourself belief that you are either ready, or responsible for X,Y and Z.
Regarding relationships and it's potency, longevity as well as sincerity, we must first have a relationship with ourselves. The same way that we value ourselves we will value others. The same way you treat as well as value yourself, you will treat and value your relationships. Whether intimacy is involved or not. Someone said, "I loved her so much.....but she never realized it". Well maybe you loved her and she didn't wantyour love, maybe she wasn't ready for it or maybe just didn't deserve it! As raw as this may sound, it is a reality you have to accept. Why give someone something that they aren't seeking, neither deserve? Why play games when you wouldn't appreciate someone playing games with you? These tell tale signs are proof of where the individual stands, their mental state of mind, what they are about and will continue to be about. People reflect their upbringing, character, thought and intentions---- PeRioD! There is no way around this, no back door or escape hatch, no depth, excuse or explanation. They are driven by these behaviors for whatever dysfunctional reason. When you are in the know of who, what, where and why concerning self, your choices and decisions will not continuously take you through a revolving door, which allows you to repeat the same "mistakes" over and over again. Instead your choices takes you to different places, allowing you to deal with an array of people and acquire many things. The people that you are continuously attracting as well as are attracted to, stems from so much. One of which is family......What have you witnessed as you were growing up?, Who do you look up to? What have you become comfortable with, What type of people are in your family? How do they behave, What do they believe? How close is your family and how do they interact with each other. Is there Love, Unity, Respect, Sincerity, Discipline, Morals and LoYalty? These behaviors are extremely important and reflect ones behavior unless you choose to behave contrary. If contrary to and your environment consist of back biting, division, lies, deceit, envy, jealousy and hate, all of the above will lead to destruction, more than likely you will unconsciously then consciously pattern your life to self destruct because this is your default as well as your comfort zone. Your relationships will always begin and end the exact same way, you will attract the same people! You will never realize what you possess as well as deserve. If you've been given a blessing you will consider it a curse, a friend an enemy and an enemy a best friend. Unbeknown to you, you will attract friends, acquaintances, lovers, spouse and mentors with like minds and no goals. Cookie cutting is for bakers not life! Don't be deceived in thinking this is not the end result if you don't take responsibility and the necessary steps to change this. If you choose to cookie cut, you are bound to get the same results every time. It takes awareness and the desire to change that which you believe you have no control of. This hub goes out to Dave, I hope that you are able to find the answers to that which you desire........ciao
Vonda G. Nelson
Are you ConFuSed with YoU?
By: vonda g. nelson
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