Attracting Women - Discover The Secret Methods To Getting Any Woman
When it comes to attracting women it seems that biggest concern men deal with is their presumption that they are too ugly to attract women
. There are various sizes and shapes of insecurity, such as:- Some guys believe there is no chance at attracting women because they are too old
- Some think they're too fat for attracting women
- Some believe that they too short to be any good at attracting women
- Some think attracting women is impossible because they are too ugly
Many men feel hopeless when it comes to attracting women they desire, because of such feelings. But lucky for all of us this simply isn't the case.
I want to take a moment and dispel a few attraction myths that hold men back from achieving success in their love life.
Myth #1 Women are only attracted to good looking men
All you have to do is look around at the various types of guys in this world who are dating gorgeous women to know that this isn't the case. Simply put, it is essential to look good regardless of your physical attractiveness. How is there a difference? The difference is, you may not escape your looks, but you do control your presentation of what looks you do have by the way you groom and wear your hair as well as how you smell and the clothes you wear, and so forth. These are all aspects that factor into looking good. Any man can be attracting women when he controls his appearance.
Myth #2 Women Think Like Men Do
Naturally, we all think that everyone sees things in the same way you see those things. For instance If you've ever had a pimple on your forehead that felt so big, it was like everyone could see it. But the pimple was under the skin, and in reality, no one but you could tell it was there. You can see it plainly, while others may not notice it at all. Naturally, we practice this attitude while summing others up. Do you judge a woman by the way she looks? Of course you do, since you are able to determine by visually appraising her whether you think she is attractive. By nature, you think a woman sizes you up in the same manner as you do her. This is incorrect.
Women have a different set of standards when determining their attraction than men have. This does not mean they have no care as to the attractiveness of a man; they just do not use physical characteristics as a means of judgment as men do. Women find attraction by how a man makes them feel, more so than how he may physically appear. This explains their attraction to social status and confidence. Men who make them laugh and are good at what they do, tend to also be good at attracting women. Physical looks has very little to do with whether a woman is attracted to a man.
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Myth #3 Women Notice Our Insecurities
Keep in mind that we know our own self, better than anyone ever will. We see all our flaws, such as our large noses and ears, a weak chin or receding hairline. No matter what it is, we see it! Since we see it very plainly, we merely assume everyone else can too. Nevertheless, many individuals are not observant at all, unless they search for and issue to analyze about you. If you have insecurities, as we all do most likely they wont even care, since we all focus so highly of our own.
Many men may call attention to their shortcomings while trying to dismiss and diffuse the things that make them feel insecure. Consequently, all this type of behavior does is managing to call the attention of the woman to the area of insecurity; otherwise, she may not even notice it. And insecurity is always unattractive. Then remember, in every situation it is essential to focus on your good qualities rather than any shortcomings, since the positive will outshine the negative or at least balance it more in your favor.
Myth #4 Good Looking Guys Have It Easy
Get a grip guys, this is the biggest myth of them all. Women do not automatically flock to a good looking man. Those men have their own set of problems with women. Clearly in the beginning being attractive physically does help, however they have the same issues as the rest of us. Attraction is the magnification of the emotional connection a woman feels while in your presence, you can build this connection in such a manner that the woman only feels this way when she is with you. Consequently, she will want to have you around her.
When a man matches the physical type of man, a woman prefers she naturally gravitates towards him, simply because those features appeal to her. Those feelings go away if she considers the man to be incompatible, a jerk or a bore. However, if you take a guy that the woman maybe isn't initially physically attracted to, and then have him make her experience feelings of fun, excitement, and pleasure she WILL become attracted to him eventually.
Others want to be around you when you make them feel good; this is one of the basics of attraction. Being a good looking man does not mean, you make women feel good. You simply need to learn how to mingle and interact with women.
This equation has a second factor and that is of sexual attraction. This is where, in addition to making people feel good, you also turn them on. This aspect naturally leads to seduction. As you lead a woman towards sexual attraction, she begins seeing you in a new perspective, despite your shortcomings or looks.
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Attracting Women - Discover The Secret Methods To Getting Any Woman
By: Jazmine Laree