Autism, First Things First

1. My child was just been diagnosed with autism. What should I do now

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First of all, you need to let it sink in. It is most likely a shock to have this diagnosis to both you and your family. Let it sink in. Embrace it. Cry, get angry, be sad it is important for you to first deal with your emotions. You must first get beyond your emotions so that you can have a clear mind which will allow you to actually start taking steps to help your child.

You might feel guilty but, ask yourself why? You did nothing wrong. You did not cause your child to have autism. Do not blame yourself. You might feel shame but ask yourself why? You have a miracle to hold in your arms. No matter what the diagnosis this is your baby, your child she, or he, is your gift of love, your gift of joy. Try to never forget this.

It might take you, or your spouse, a period of time to accept the diagnosis. This is understandable and it is normal. However, it is VERY important that you both eventually learn to accept.

2. I feel I have accepted the fact that my child has been diagnosed with autism. What is the first thing you believe I should do?

First, since you have accepted the fact that your child has autism the very first thing you need to do is pat yourself on the back and convince your spouse that the two of you need to celebrate. However, in regards to your situation, what might sound corny' to some has been a lifesaver to others. This is what I suggest.

Go to your nearest stationery store. Browse all of the types of notebooks, diaries, and other items they have available to write in. Select the one you like and feel comfortable. Buy it.

Once you arrive home, now, and every day in the future, it is important to write, write, write! You can use your notebook to record details about your child. For example, it is important to write about the reasons you decided to have your child tested along with his/her age at the time. It is important to know the exact age when your child received the diagnosis. In the future it is important to record anything that might be of interest in future years. I tell you this now because in the years ahead you will be asked all kinds of questions about your child; every new teacher, psychologist, speech therapist everyone will want to know different pieces of information. If you have it readily available it will make your life much easier. The more precise information you can offer the better for your child's future.

Also, it is important to write your feelings and emotions. If you feel angry tell your friend,' your notebook, the rage you feel inside and why. If you are sad then report this to your friend. Your writing can be fantastic therapy. It can offer you a great form of release.

Autism, First Things First

By: Jack E George

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