Hello guys, Joey here. I had the biggest problem with approaching the ladies. Most guys are generally shy and have no clue how to act or react to women. We do not know how to get a girl's attention much less keep her attention. I am not the best looking guy or the wealthiest guy out there. So what is a guy like me supposed to do? The first biggest mistake I made was asking friends for advice. I asked guys and I asked girls. At the end of the day I got even more confused than when I started. A friend referred me to a book called the game by Neil Strauss. I have not read any other books on dating before but I did a quick comparison on Google and found that 'the game by Neil Strauss' was amongst the most popular relationship advice for men out there so I went to my local bookstore and picked it up.
The book was very informative, easy to read and thin - as opposed to the novel hard cover books. It details everything from confidence building to voice projection. That's right, voice projection; something that I overlooked and probably would never figure out if not for "the game". If a guy is nervous, his voice would not sound as confident like how he would talk to his little brother. One of my favourite chapters in this book explains how our posture and appearance plays a big role in a man's aura. Some guys seem to have an aura that invisibly surrounds them that is meant to repel the ladies so no matter how hard they try, their natural aura works against them. So how do we remove these invisible auras? Simple: Start your day standing tall and act like you are worth a million bucks. Talk to the ladies like you are talking to your grandma's best friends. Put on your new boxers or briefs that make you feel like the king of kings. Do anything that makes you feel empowered and in charge. There are tons of interesting stories and exercises in the book that aided me on my confidence to approach woman. Essentially, the book explains in a physiological standpoint what women are looking for in their man. This is not a book that is intended for those quick fixes.
I have used the strategies and I have been with my current girlfriend for over 2 years now without any major fights(knock on wood). When it comes to confidence building and attracting women for men, I highly recommend 'the game, by Niel strauss'.
