Believe The Goodness In Your Cheating Husband's Heart

Many women believe that a cheating husband is a bad thing

. And it is. But, your cheating husband isn't necessarily a bad man. It's amazing how our human perception of someone can change in an instant at times.

In reality, it's easy for us to judge other people like associate the behavior to the deed, and somehow feel that the person is such a despicable one.

It's a little difference when your husband is the one that's cheating though, isn't it? It's not like you can suddenly erase all the years you spent believing he was a good man at heart. It doesn't instantly eliminate all the love you have for him. It might shatter your heart, hurt you to the core, and even wound your pride a bit but it doesn't make you suddenly believe that he has been taken over by his evil twin or something.

What You see is not Always What you Get

The eye is the window to our soul. Although, experience is a great teacher, we may not have experienced all there is to experience just to equip us with the wisdom to know and do whatever is the right thing to carry out.

No matter how much we'd like to think we found the one perfect partner, there is a danger in having expectations of perfection in the people we love.

Expectations to Expect for a Happy Marriage

Pushing our spouses to perfection will only put them in a box where their surest downfall is failure. We must make realistic expectations, attainable expectations that can be achieved through humility.

The road to perfection seems a little blurry this time. Perfection in the first place is not a human attribute, but a destination for humans. If this road has been jaded by high standards, a husband may feel like he is not really the man who can satisfy his wife so, somehow contributed to his desire to look for a place where his capabilities can fit.

One Action Doesn't Change the Man

What you can do to help him be honest this time is to forgive him. Now, forgiveness is resolving the issues, letting go of it, or and eventually accepting your cheating husband for that second chance.

For the time being it is important that you make a decision to either forgive him for cheating provided he leaves his cheating in the past and doesn't do it again or experience a future without the good man you married in it.

by: T Dub Jackson.

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