Biblical Marriage principle- Believe that the Lord wants you to be happy and to have a Good marriage

One thing for sure is that unless you believe that the Lord care about you and is

concerned for your personal good, you are chained to slavery of unbelief that hinders you from being yourself in freedom. You are never a whole person until you learn to believe in His goodness. You are like an eight-cylinder motor-car sputtering along on three cylinders. As long as you secretly feel that the Lord is far away from you, or He doesn't care, or He is mad at you and wants to see you suffer, you will be forced by Satan to make all kinds of mistakes that will just make your situation worse. A person whose mind is distraught and whose heart is cast down cannot make wise decisions at any time. You are short-circuited in your soul. You may think you are doing the right thing while you are driving a wedge that is separating you further from your husband/wife.

Beware of the widespread feeling, that suffering and unhappiness may be "the will of God" for you. Millions do nothing to improve their situation because they have unconsciously absorbed a fatalism based on this false and depressing idea. If you believe God is willing for you to be deprived and to suffer, how could you possibly respect and love Him? This is a mistaken view of the character of God. It is Satan's anesthetic to put you to sleep so you can be robbed of the blessings the Lord wants you to enjoy.

Notice how the Bible gives us hope: "This is the victory that overcomes the world. even our faith" (1 John 5:4). Any unhappiness in marriage is caused by "the world". "The world" produces slavery of all kinds, "We however, are citizens of heaven" (Philippians 4:20). The Lord "gave Himself for our sins, that He might deliver us from this present evil world, according to the will of God our father" (Galatians 1:4). Citizens held hostage by a foreign nation have no way to be free. They are captives, But, says John, you are not a captive if you have "faith". Faith becomes your own private helicopter that sets you free from your situation of captivity. Thus you "overcome."

Don't misunderstand the whole point. This does not mean that it takes you out of your marriage! TO break up your marriage may not be the Lord's solution to your problem. Finding peace and happiness within your marriage is better. Faith overcomes "the world" that is causing your unhappiness. Everyone can learn to exercise faith, no matter how many mistakes he has made. If you do not exercise faith, the Lord does not get angry with you and punish you; but He will feel sorry for you. "Without faith it is impossible to please Him: for he that cometh to God must believe that HE is a rewarder of them that diligently seek Him" (Hebrews 11:6). It is Satan who lies to us and wants us to believe that the Lord is our enemy and wants to torment us. This is non-faith, or unbelief. It is thinking that God is "against" us. But the real truth is,If God be for us, who can be against us? He that spared not His own son, but delivered Him up for us all, how shall He not with Him also freely give us all things? (Romans 8:31, 32).

Is your faith weak? As sure as day follows night, if you will look to the Cross, that great sacrifice God made for your redemption, and see how "He spared not His own son" for you, you will see how He will freely give you all things for your best good. You have thought you were poor, but in Christ you are wealthy. Two blind men begged Christ to heal their eye sight. He asked, "Believe ye that I am able to do this?". Fortunately, they did, for otherwise he could hot have worked the miracle for them (Matthew 9:27,28). When HE came to His own home town of Nazareth, "He could do no mighty works because of their unbelief" (Mark 6:5, 6). HE wanted to, but He couldn't. Unbelief hinders what He really wants to do for you, it is a sickness, a disease that paralyzes you. It is worse even than cancer. But you can overcome it!

Whatever your problem is, make your choice to believe that God is your kind and a loving Heavenly Father who wants to deliver you. You may think it is very difficult to believe, and your whole soul may cry out against believing because your situation appears hopeless. But you can choose to believe. This is the secret worth a million dollars! A distraught father of a tormented boy came to Jesus with the pathetic plea, "If Thou can't do anything, have compassion on us and help us." Sometimes we doubt that God can't do anything because everything seems to have gone wrong and we seem to face certain ruin. "God, if You can do something, please do!" But really, such a prayer is futile, for it is unbelief. It questions both God's willingness and power to save. It shows that we do not understand the Cross where Jesus died for us, and we are not yet reconciled to God. We don't believe He truly loves us.

Jesus turned the "if" right around backwards, and said to the father, "If thous can't believe, all things are possible to him that believe." Then He waited for the father's response. The father made a choice that brought help to millions of people ever since, and to you as well: "straight away the father of the child cried out, and said with tears, Lord, I believe; help Thou mine unbelief" (Mark 9:22-24). If you will pray that same prayer, you will never be lost. It is the beginning of that faith "that overcomes the world." When you pray, choose to believe.

Now that we have taken our time to analyse the importance of believing that the Father is interested in every thing good about us, we can as well apply it to our marriages. God is the founder of marriage. He created that wonderful Union between a man and a woman. He constituted it and made it sacred. Adam been the first husband even proclaim it "then should a man leave his father and mother and cling to his wife to become one". God loves marriage, because it is the manifestation in obedience to his power, might and creation. So, from the previous paragraphs, we've learnt how He is interested in all our needs and will not let us just suffer like that, why not our marriages too? Sometimes when things go wrong in our marriages we tend to ask God why. We feel God did not establish our homes.

Or we also feel God has led us to the wrong person, even after seeking His face extensively as well as following his guided principles of choosing a partner before the marriage. No! Of course there is no perfect marriage, why? It is simply because no one is perfect and if two imperfect people come together in an intimate union then do not expect a 100%. Nevertheless through thick and thin, God is always there. If He is interested in our needs, If He loves us even to the extent of sending His son, If He healed the sick and raised the dead, If He healed the Blind, then it will never be difficult for Him to help us maintain a steady and wonderful relationship in marriage which He created. So far as you are already in this life-long constitution, and you do everything to make it work, all you just have to do is BELIEVE.

Biblical Marriage principle- Believe that the Lord wants you to be happy and to have a Good marriage

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