Breaking Up Was a Mistake - How To Get Your Ex Back Fast

Often times, breaking up seems like the only option when we hit a rough patch in a relationship

. When we are feeling frustrated, threatening a break-up is not uncommon and when it is followed through, we may realize what a huge mistake it was. Learning from my past mistakes, I would never use breaking up as a solution to a problem in a relationship. It works out so much better if you exhaust all possible options (talking, couples therapy, etc.) before calling it quits.

However, if it is too late and you have already broken up, you want to find some advice to restore your relationship. Although you have separated, it doesn't mean that all hope is lost. The separation will become permanent if you do not take any action. Of course, everyone's situation is different, but unlike other couples who never try again, you can try and see if it works out.

Now that you have realized the mistake of ending the relationship (whether you did the dumping or you were dumped) it helps not to think of it as over. People say things when under emotional stress that they don't mean. You both may have said many things out of anger. If you begin to view your relationship with hope, you will be in a better position to communicate what you really want.

Think about everything you said during your last arguments. Particularly the hurtful things. When you communicate with your ex and apologize, be sure to bring up the specific things you know hurt your ex. General apologies are not as effective as ones in which you own up to what you did. Also, don't feel like you are caving in because you choose to apologize first. You should care more about the relationship than giving into your ego.

Too many times, we want to place blame instead of focusing in on the healing process. In order for your ex to realize it was a mistake to break up with you, you have to be willing to convey hope and forgiveness. If you can do that correctly, your ex will be more open to do the same.

Breaking Up Was a Mistake - How To Get Your Ex Back Fast

By: Tina Haines

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