Build a Loving Relationship

Build a Loving Relationship

Build a Loving Relationship

There is the same difference in a person before and after he is in love as there is in an unlighted lamp and one that is burning. The lamp was there and it was a good lamp, but now it is shedding light too, and that is its real function. - Vincent van Gogh -

Like any organic system, a human relationship is subject to entropy - meaning that it is always in a state of decay. With a little effort you can counteract the tendency for your love relationship to fall apart. Yes, You Can!

Create psychological intimacy. Share your innermost experiences and deepest feelings with the person you love. Talk daily about your impressions of the people and events you encounter; reveal your most important life goals; share your reactions to the triumphs and failures you experience.

Maintain physical intimacy: hug and kiss in private; hold hands in public.

Spend time each day discussing your "other lives" - your work, your families, your hobbies, and any other areas of life you may not always experience together.

Make each other laugh - especially in a mature relationship where you may have forgotten the importance of being funny.

Express love in ways that are important to your partner. Some need to see proof of love (for example, gifts or things you do); some need to hear proof of love (for example, saying "I love you" or giving compliments); some need to feel proof of love (for example, through hugs and kisses). Tell your partner which of these expressions you need.

Each of you make a list of things the other can do to reinforce the feeling of being cared for. Do at least one thing on your lover's list every day.

View the flaws you see in your lover as coal that hasn't yet turned into diamond. Don't plan or hope to change a thing. If you can't accept that "what you see is what you get," leave the relationship before it's too late.

Remember, you can! (Phillipians 4: 13)

This article was written by Dr David Molapo. David Molapo is a Management Consultant, Educationalist and renowned Motivational Speakerrepresented by Conference Speakers International.

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