Believe it or not there are options to divorce for those who have been caught cheating. You might not like all of them but some of them will make it possible for you to save your marriage in the end. In other words, if you want to save your marriage they may be worth the temporary discomfort of these solutions. Of course, you could go with a simpler solution that promises excellent results for the sake of your marriage.
Are you ready to learn what you need to do to save your marriage after you've been caught cheating?
There is one thing that works heads and shoulders above all else. You need to sit down and write what is known as an apology letter. This is a letter that needs to be hand written by you in order to have maximum impact. We live in a world where electronic messages rule the day. A hand written note doesn't get lost in the electronic fog. It makes a lasting impression. That is why it's so important that you actually write the note yourself.
What should you include in your letter of apology?
1) Specific reason for apologizing. Tell your spouse what it is that you are apologizing for and be as specific as possible. You do not have to offer all the gory details. That's not what I'm saying at all but you do need to make sure you and your spouse are on the same page about whatever it is you're apologizing for.
2) No excuses. This is really important. This is not the time to try to push the blame on someone else or make excuses for your actions. Own up to what you've done, how it's affected your wife, and what it means for your marriage.
3) Direction. Tell your spouse the direction you'd like your marriage to take from here on out. Give your spouse something to look forward to in your marriage if he or she gives your marriage a second chance. Lingering in limbo is no good for either of you. Be specific about how you would change things if you were given a second chance. You just might find that your spouse is on board or has a few suggestions to add to the pot.
4) An appeal. The final thing to include in your letter of apology is an appeal to work things out. Leave the ball in your spouse's court and wait for a response. The odds are good that you won't have to wait very long and you will get the response you want.