Christian Affair - Can Your Marriage Survive The Hit?

Are you dealing with a Christian affair in your marriage

? Here are some ways you can survive the affair and build a stronger and happier marriage together. Remember, don't just rely on your own wisdom, compassion, ability and strength to forgive a Christian affair; you are leaning on God's love for that.

Forgiveness is for you and not your spouse.

Forgiveness is choosing to let go of feelings like bitterness, resentment, hatred and anger that you feel towards your spouse. Forgiveness is letting go of your feelings of punishment and revenge that you have towards your spouse because of the Christian affair.

Forgiveness does not mean you won't think about their affair again. It does mean that you will make a conscious decision not to think about the Christian affair in destructive ways anymore. Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to fully trust your spouse right now. Trust is extremely unlike forgiveness. Trust has to be proven by your spouse to show they are worthy. Forgiveness you give freely and does not have to be earned.

Find Encouragement

I searched the Internet for marriage encouragement and this really helped. Search and find some good places where you share a common bond with everyone, being a Christian affair. There are many blogs, forums and message boards out there just for this area.

Remember That It Takes Time

A Christian affair doesn't just heal overnight; it took me 4 1/2 years before I could say that our marriage was healed after my husband's affair. I know the experts say that it takes 2-5 years and it's very true. So, be patient and where you are in your healing is where you should be.

Use Daily Devotions

I leaned heavily on my daily devotions to help me through this Christian affair and without them I wouldn't be where I am today. Please start using some today so you can get closer with God and hear His words of wisdom so that you can find your way back to healing.

They can give you comfort when you can't find it anywhere else. They can change your entire life and your whole marriage. If you can't find your way out of the pain of your spouse's Christian affair, please turn to daily devotions to help you out of the darkness.

Do you want your pain and devastation to go away? Would you like to have a happy marriage again? Then please consider adding daily devotions to your daily routine. Don't go through this pain any longer than you absolutely have to. Nothing can do more for your wealth, health, children, career success and overall happiness than not only healing your marriage, but also making it a happy and heartfelt one.

by: Marsha Rozalski

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