Christmas Sex Tips The And Holiday Period – How To Make Sure You Have A Pleasurable Christmas
Christmas Sex Tips The And Holiday Period How To Make Sure You Have A Pleasurable Christmas
When it comes to the festive period we think about everyone else except ourselves it seems. I thought I would offer some Christmas sex tips to make sure we can all still have some fun over the holiday period.
You know you buy presents; you have to arrange special meals, there are work parties and social events. It is a very stressful period and we often neglect our own selves.
These Christmas sex tips are part self-loving but also part survival guide. As we say the festive period is stressful and we can often lose balance and forget to set out some "me" time. People forget to take time for themselves and for their romantic partner too.
You Have To Plan Ahead!
Now when it comes to Christmas you have to set out time for you and your partner. This means make sure you set aside time for an illicit rendezvous with your partner (or yourself). You cannot let other obligations get in the way be it family or friends.
You know my thinking there is always time to pleasure oneself or find time for at least a bit of a fumble with a partner. It can be five minutes in the shower (on pulsate and high), time in the car or many other places that your imagination will take you.
Your plan has to specific leaving nothing to chance
-Pick a specific date and time
-Consider how long you have for the date. Make sure it is realistic, keep it short
-Make sure the location you choose is available
-Set out exactly what you would like to do (this makes the anticipation a thrill too)
-Think about props such as outfits, safer sex gear and sex toys and make sure they are readily available when the time comes.
It Can Also Be A Surprise
If you are making a plan for you and your partner then it is up to you whether to let your partner in on the plan. There is a risk if you go for the surprise option that they may not be "in the mood" and be preoccupied with holiday stress. The downside is that surprise sex can be fun too; so the choice is up to you.
Maybe The Phone Can Work
You can plan a phone sex date for example before leaving for work on Christmas Eve. Another option could be to plan a late night frolic after the presents have been wrapped but before the kids wake up on Christmas Day.
If you are thinking about a bit of self pleasure then setting aside time in the middle of a long day for you to be alone could really work.
Consider setting aside time for sexual pleasure a little bit of mental and physical relief (a mini-holiday within the holiday period). It may only be for ten minutes say but those precious moments could lead to an emotional, physical and spiritual rejuvenation.
Oh! The biggest Christmas sex tip I can give however is to make sure to HAVE FUN!