Clear Indicators That You Have Marriage Issues

Anyone who's been in a long lasting relationship will tell you there are rough periods

, and most people, when they're honest, will admit to doubts along the way. But yet many of us do not understand how to wade through our emotions. Here are some symptoms that suggest a relationship is in trouble. If you find the list of things that are wrong with your relationship begin to pile up, you might just have a dud of a relationship. If you have three to five checked off, you probably need a tune-up. This is not supposed to be an exhaustive list but meant to steer you in the area of counseling if you decide you need it.

Let's start off with a pretty simple symptom of a troubled relationship. You feel worse around your companion than you do when you're on your own. You feel like a smaller person when the two of you are together. And you could also face a relationship in which the two of you are just not telling the truth.

You often feel hurt by how you are treated by your partner, instead of feeling good while being together. You complain frequently about your relationship to others. And you notice that every talk that you have has become strained.

It's good to remember that the love quotes we all read ought to be an inspiration but not a judgment. Everyone wants a love that lasts like we read about in the love quotes. Yet that type of relationship is one that is hard won and not just given.

Let me make one thing clear, if you have experienced any kind of domestic abuse, this is a serious problem and must be addressed immediately. No one should ever put up with an abusive relationship even if the abuse comes in the form of verbal assaults. Still of concern is when one or both partners throw objects at walls, break things in the house, or otherwise destroy property.

Sometimes people can choose to go the route of trying to hurt themselves by trying to commit suicide or other destructive behaviors. (Some threats of suicide are thinly veiled attempts to make their partner feel so guilty that they become afraid of saying or doing anything that might upset their partner, such as leave the relationship).

One or both partners use and abuse recreational drugs, including alcohol, on a regular basis, to the extent that it disrupts the relationship. This is the individuals issue and may not be an indication that the relationship is in trouble the person is in trouble, and their drinking/using will very negatively affect the relationship.

You find that your mate does not trust you. Let's face it, we all have trouble with trust now and again, and we all deal with it. You may need help in exploring this with people who know you (and possibly your partner) well. We all seem to want to go too far every now and again.

by: cllpd47wke

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