Confronting Your Cheating Spouse- How And Why To Confront Your Cheating Spouse

If you suspect you spouse girlfriend, boyfriend or significant other of cheating

on you you are not alone almost 50% of relationships are headed to disaster with infidelity being the major cause if you are noticing one or more of the 9 things in this article that are the 9 deadly sins then you need to be prepared so you do not become a victim of your spouse.

I remember a few years ago, before I met my wife, I was dating, I had a girlfriend Shoshanna she had a good friend that she would go out with every Friday night to the clubs. She would usually not come home because she would be drinking and thus not able to drive home, so she said.

Lets fast forward 10 years After I met my wife we got married and had a son and a daughter I remember receiving a letter from the state that I reside in they requested me to have a DNA test to prove weather or not I was the father of a child that shoshanna gave birth to a while or so after we separated. I had moved to another State and bought a house and was now raising a family. Imagine my horror when this letter arrived and I had to tell my wife about it She went on and on about how I would have to pay child support and I would have to become a part of the Childs life etc. And how it would be a hindrance on my current wife and family.

I went to the designated clinic and had the DNA test done and waited, Luckily for me I was working for Jim Rohm at the time, he clearly taught to write in a journal and record the daily events of your life. I found the journal that I had recorded everything day by day week by week and traced it back 9 months from the birth of the child and to my surprise I had not been with my ex girlfriend for 12 weeks, so the baby could not have been mine, I told my wife but she was skeptical at my findings, the day came I was contacted by the State, I was not the Childs father

My ex had been sleeping around on me while I was at work, and got pregnant we broke up about 1.5 months after I returned from the road with Jim Rohn and I never knew or even suspected. What a relief it was to know I was not the father of her child can you imagine what my life would have been like. I was blind and stupid and took everything that she said at face value and I believed her when she said she loved me and wanted to spend the rest of her life with me boy was I blind and dumb.

Dont let this happen to you, if you suspect your spouse weather male or female to be cheating on you, for just a second put the shoe on the other foot, what would you do if you were running around on your husband or wife, would you tell him or her that you are working late or coming and going at odd hours, remember when passion strikes a person will do almost anything to be with there lover, so common sense does not necerallely follow suit. If you suspect your other half of cheating remember do be careful when confronting cheating spouse and about facing suspicions. You may only have one chance at catching them if you blow your chance with a plight of anger you may have set your self up for a hard road, where the spouse will be very careful and hide there tracks very well, and make it more difficult for you to catch them in the act, so keep your cool.

Some basic signs of infidelity they are:

#1 Showering at odd times during the day or night?

#2 Not wearing their wedding ring as often as they should

#3 Making love with new positions and techniques

#4 Wearing different perfume or cologne

#5 Not wanting anything at all to do with you

#6 Hiding or running away when there cell phone rings.

#7 Putting a password on their home computer

#8 Clearing their history on their computer when they are finished

#9 Changing their e-mail address to a new hosting company with out telling you.

The list goes on and on if you are seeing a few of these above signs happening to you, it may be time to take things into your own hands and do something about it. A boy friend or girlfriend can lead to severe consequences for both you and your spouses well being and finances which can lead to divorce and bankruptcy and much worse.

by: deceived

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