Dealing With Infidelity - 5 Signs To Look For With A Cheating Husband
No one likes to be played for a fool and infidelity in the sanctity of marriage is especially devastating
. When dealing with infidelity, it is important to take heed to your female intuition or your gut telling you that something is wrong. If you sense that you are being lied to, here are 5 signs to look for with a cheating husband.
When you took your vows to remain true in your marriage and forsake all others, you had the expectation that your husband would commit to you in the same way and probably repeated the same vows as you did. Somewhere along the way, something went wrong and you suspect that your husband is seeing another woman (or man) on the side.
Some men would like to have their cake and eat it too which is unfair to you or may be too chicken to tell you the truth that they are interested in someone else. The presence of children further complicates the matter.
You deserve to know the truth no matter the circumstance and living with an untrustworthy spouse whom you suspect of infidelity can be detrimental to your health with the stress that you have to deal with and blaming yourself for no reason at all for your spouse's dalliances.
Extramarital affairs conducted by husbands (and wives) are very common today and continue to be on the rise. With the stories of celebrities, politicians and even church leaders conducting affairs while married, it is destroying the faith that people have in the sanctity of marriage and having faithful partners.
Facing the truth that you are being lied to is important to you so that you can deal with the aftermath of the affair and the cheating husband. If you are ready to face the truth about a cheating husband, it is relatively easy to catch a cheating husband in an extramarital affair if you look for certain signs. Some signs however are so subtle that you can easily miss them.
5 Signs to Look For With a Cheating Husband
1. Strange Phone Use - If your significant other acts strange when he uses the phone and is fidgety or acts nervous, or leaves the room when he gets a call, it is probably the other woman (or man) on the phone. When you enter the room and he proceeds to stop talking or gets off the phone abruptly to prevent you from hearing what or who he is talking to. Record the times that this occurs and then try to get a copy of the phone bill or check the call log to see if you recognize the name and/or number.
2. Concern about or Changes in Appearance - If your man out of the blue starts being concerned with how he looks and starts wearing cologne, new and/or more expensive clothing, starts or becomes obsessed with working out, etc, this could be a sign of cheating as he tries to impress the other woman. If he starts doing extra things to look his very best when spending a night on the town with his boys or even when he goes to work, this may be a sign of an affair or the desire for one.
3. Reduced Time Spent with Family - One of the significant signs of an extramarital affair is if your husband suddenly does not seem that interested in spending time with you or if you have children, with the children. He suddenly has other things to do.
4. Odd Schedule Changes - Some odd or unusual schedule changes include but are not limited to working overtime or staying late at the office which he never seemed to do before. Is he taking unexpected business trips that he claims he forgot to tell you about? Also when your man goes out with the boys (as he claims), is he gone for longer periods that the usual? There is usually a paper trail that you can follow up on such as credit card statements, receipts, etc.
5. Guilt - When some husbands are engaged in extramarital affairs, they may feel guilty which will cause them to overcompensate with you by being more attentive to you than they usually are. Buying you flowers, gifts and showering you with affection and just being more attentive than usual, this is probably one of the red flags to look for.
The five signs above are just a few red flags to look for when your gut tells you that your husband is not being totally honest which you and may be having an affair. Ignorance is not bliss and if your husband is not man enough to let you know the truth, you need to take the steps to find out and protect yourself. With all the sexually transmitted diseases out there, you can not afford to bury your head in the sand. You also need to take your children into consideration.
by: Jamie Madsen
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