Through our entire life we sometimes have to go through certain circumstances we wish would not happen. Breakups are one of those some people regard it as rough situation that eats up your life by adding pessimism, sadness, hopelessness, and discomfort. No matter what people say or what they think, the truth is that no body wants to go through relationship breakups. Breakups cause several aftereffects which can create a disaster in your life. Dealing with a breakup can feel like fighting for your survival as you encounter depression which results in many physical and social syndromes.
During early days of breakup, it is important that you should spill out your anger and sadness. This can be done in a number of ways; you can cry or can destroy the pictures or letters from your ex. This seems to be rude but according to medical sciences, it is very important to immediately cool yourself down in order to be able to see a way forward. Now start thinking through all possible reasons that were responsible for your relationship breakup. Understand and accept the reality that your partner does not want to be in a relationship with you whatever the reasons are but admit this bitter truth.
Just when you stop thinking about this, close this chapter forever because it will not do you any good to keep fantasizing about what you had or could have had. Always give yourself credit for being on the right side and applying 100% effort to make things work. So all blame should go to your ex who was not willing to go with this in the long run. Now there are quite a few things you should focus on. First of all, think about yourself and figure out if you have any flaws in your personality. Built-in attributes cannot be changed, but you can always work on put-on traits that are not naturally yours. This is the best way you can make yourself an ideal personality for the right person and become more attractive to a larger group of people.
Once everything is set try finding a person who desires to be in a relationship with you. This time you will be more experienced and will look upon everything maturely. This is how a normal person should deal with a breakup. Always remember one thing that you have no right to destroy your life for someone who has already gone and has not only rejected you but also your love and trust.