Divorce After Cheating – Is This the Only Answer Available?
Divorce After Cheating Is This the Only Answer Available
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When you find out the person you love has been cheating on you; it may seem that divorce after cheating is the only logical solution to your problem. The thing is that this is not the only answer available. You do have options to divorce even after cheating has taken its own toll on your marriage.
Many women believe that cheating is the ultimate sin in marriage. For a lot of women, there is little wiggle room between sex and love. They are permanently intertwined. It is difficult at best for these women to comprehend that their husbands can cheat on them without being in love with the other woman.
In fact, there are many women who believe that the only way for their husbands to really cheat is if they love the other woman more. This makes them feel as though divorce is the only option available not just for their sake but also for the sake of the husbands they still love.
Sound a little twisted? I'm willing to bet you're having similar thoughts rolling around in your mind right now as you're trying to come to terms with the fact that your husband has cheated on you and what it means for your marriage and any future you may have had together.
So, what exactly are your options once you find out your husband has been cheating on you?
You can leave. The only thing that can or should stop you from leaving your husband and going for divorce after cheating is your heart. If you still love your husband even though you know he cheated, then you should have a difficult time turning your back and just walking away.
You can ask him to stay. This might be very difficult for a woman in your shoes. You feel incredibly wronged by the fact that your husband cheated on you. You also happen to feel that if anyone should be asking someone to stay it should be the other way around. The thing is he's probably thinking he deserves you to leave and no matter how much he wants you to stay believes he is doing the right thing by letting you go no matter how much he's hurting.
You can win him back. Sometimes the best thing to do is a full scale assault on his senses. Sometimes you need to wage an all out war to win him back. When you do this, he'll see just how much he stands to lose and what really is lacking in that other woman.