Have you guys been hanging out together and you want to know if he'd be interested in starting a romance with you? Does he have all the qualities you're looking for in a man and you want to make him yours? Are you afraid to make a move because things might just blow up in your face and you'll lose him entirely? Romance can very well ruin a friendship when it is desired by only one party. You need to move slow and subtle. Here's how to know if he's open to the idea.
How often does he call you?
If you find that you're the one who always have to make the move to contact him, he might not be as interested in this relationship as you are. As frightening as it might seem, stop contacting him altogether and let him show you his real desire to see you. As the weeks pass by and you don't hear a word, you'll know.
Does he plan fun dates?
If he's simply stopping over to hang out without any real plans in mind, he might simply see you as a friend. Check out what you guys do when you're together as well. When everything is set around what he enjoys doing it's because you're not that important.
A man really does enjoy pleasing the girl in their life. He'll do everything to make sure you enjoy your time with him and he should be calling in advance to let you know what he has in mind.
Other than sex, what do you guys have going on?
Many women will offer up sex early and often thinking that this will keep him interested. But if this is the main focus of your every encounter with him, you have to realize that your relationship isn't very strong. Sex will only keep a man interested for so long. Without an emotional bond to really tie him to you, his interest will wane when the passion dies down.
Even the guy who wants to hold back on his emotions is going to let these hints slip through. All you have to do is look at your relationship honestly and you'll know.